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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I encourage my DD to rsvp NO to this party, whether she was a common guest or a special sleepover guest. I would not want my DD to be friends with this birthday girl. [/quote]
This. We would probably quietly steer our daughter away from the kind of people who think this is OK. [/quote]

How often are sleepovers with your kids that sleepover is a big deal. Every weekend there is at least one sleepover.[/quote]

But don't you see that a birthday party plus a sleepover is different?  It is way more exciting for the kids.  Either the op's dd invite only the four sleepover friends and not the other five OR have the sleepover another date when it will be seen as a ho-hum event.[/quote]

No, I don't, they are not 6 year olds. Sleepover after party is absolutely the same as a sleepover a week before or after. [/quote]

Then only invite the kids you want to sleep over.  Are you that desperate for presents?  It is wrong and you and your family are rude.  If it was done to you than you would think differently.  Why would you want to hurt an 11 year old's feelings when it is completely unnecessary?    It is kinder not to invite them than to have two different parties.[/quote]

I am the PP where kids invite themselves to sleep over, plan their party and I just agree to sleepovers. I don't invite anyone, I don't prepare, I am just helping. I don't care how many sleepover.  Presents? Where did that come from? [/quote]

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