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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]let me translate OPs post....

"She thought they would snap at teach other and then be civil" means[u] she thought that she should instigate an argument in public wit the kids and he would be trapped into the situation because they were in public[/u]. He chose to leave a situation which was manipulative. Good for him.[/quote]

What the F? Why is everyone blaming OP for instigating and intending to berate her DH w/ no consequences? The misogyny on here is unbelievable.  It's just as likely her DH over-reacted or was an ass. As he acted like an ass by leaving, I'm inclined toward that conclusion.[/quote]

Are you obtuse? She knows a certain subject pushes his buttons. He plans a nice family outing and they are on their way. She decides it time to do that cool thing my parents did and argue in front of the kids. How to start it? Hmmm. I know, I'll bring up that topic that always triggers him. Oops. Didn't think that thru, we never resolve that one, do we.

Everyone blaming the OP is due to the fact that it's her fault. Misogyny is not in play. He was trying to have a nice day with his family and she picks then to raise this, knowing the result? If I was him, I'd be pissed at her for sabotaging the whole thing. I think counseling is needed but not the couples variety. Just some good old fashion psychoanalysis. While she's at it pp, why not ask her for a recommendation. Seems like your head could use some shrinking too.[/quote]

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