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THIS is so, so true.  There was a girl who had a *HUGE* crush on my son.  He liked her as a friend, but that was it.  They were in the same circle of friends, etc. and one night, after a group outing to the movies, he drove her home.  In the car, she said, "So, does this mean we're dating?"  He replied, "NO!  We're not dating!"  He did admit to me that he might have said it too forcefully, but she had been quite clingy and irritating, so he lost his temper a bit.  She freaked out.  After he got home, this girl's sister called him and chewed him out for being so "mean" and "cruel" and then the girl got all her girlfriends to hate my son.  Simply because he told her, unequivocally, that they were not dating.

Let's reverse the genders here.  If a girl had told the boy, "NO!  We're not dating!" you all would be cheering.  But I suspect many of you will be outraged that my son had the nerve to say that to a girl.  [/quote]

Why on earth would I be outraged that your son answered, "NO! We're not dating!" in answer to the question, "So, does this mean we're dating?"

And I'll go further -- getting your friends to harass a person because that person didn't want to go out with you is wrong, regardless of the genders involved.[/quote]

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