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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP and I'm first to admit I can be irrationally upset. I feel like when I go school week days, that my being there is an intrusion. I can tell my DIL maybe mad because she either has to cook more or fancier food because I'm there or order out. Everyone is rushed and I can tell I'm messing up the routine. It's uncomfortable. Nobody makes me feel welcome. My son works some Saturdays so I know DIL makes time for her parents and family. I wish she would consider me. [/quote] So don't make extra work!! Bring dinner with you once in a while![/quote] She doesn't owe it to you to care more about visiting than your own son does. You are trying to blame your DIL because you don't want to accept that this is your son's choice too. It sounds like they don't really like having you on weekdays, but are willing to do it as a compromise. But that isn't enough for you. Maybe you should accept it as a compromise too.[/quote]
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