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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm getting married next September and although I wanted 8 bridesmaids, I compromised with fiancé and now have 6. He will only have 5 groomsmen though.
After getting to know his niece, it would mean a lot to me, if she could be one of my bridesmaids. She is only 4 years younger than me.

When we first got engaged, I didn't know her that well. I don't want to continue to off set the bridal party.  I want to ask friend if she would mine stepping down and explaining that after thinking about it, it is a hard decision but I would love my future niece in law to be in the ceremony. It is hard choosing which friend to ask to step down, but I'm leaning towards a friend I have known since high school, but we hangout 2 a year or so. 
Everyone else I see more regularly. She is a dear friend, but id think she'd understand?..

Has anyone been through this before?..[/quote]

This is his niece. Rather than lose a bridesmaid, have him add a groomsman. You have to be able to find someone else (relative of his or yours) that you could add. I think your friend would no longer be your friend and might not come to the wedding.[/quote]

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