Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "ONS had a child - How screwed am I?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, make sure that mom knows that when she marries a real man, you will sign over for her husband to adopt the child. My friends who have issues about their absent biodads are the ones whose fathers refused to allow them to be adopted by stepdad. The others are fine.[/quote] I'm the opposite. I feel abandoned by my biodad who did that, even though my stepdad adopted me. Don't presume you know what's best. It's complicated. A lot of people who are expecting spend some time during the pregnancy just processing the situation, wondering if they made the right decision. OP didn't have that privilege. He's processing it now. Maybe he won't make the best decision for the child, but he hasn't made a bad choice yet. At least he's stepping up financially. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
