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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Jesus, you PPs are harsh. Consider all of the posts on DCUM about fathers not being interested in their kids, or even mothers fretting over not bonding with their babies. Detachment can happen with parents who planned on having kids and here we have a guy who found out a few months ago that he fathered a child with a woman he barely knew. He's approaching this from a distance because he's been kept at a distance and has had no chance to develop an emotional attachment with this child. I don't think OP lack of emotion about this means he's a sociopath. I think it's quite understandable given the situation.[/quote] You make very good points. I think we are just having a visceral reaction to OP focusing more own his own navel here than what the child needs. It's all about him and what he "gets" or doesn't get to experience - he doesn't seem concerned about the child's welfare. [/quote]
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