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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for all the advice.
I do have a diet plan I am working with my doctor on.
I have lost both my parents within a year of each other ( in their 60s) and maybe that contributed to the weight gain and the[b] need for feeling some unconditional love[/b].[/quote]
OP, I think you've realized that it is this.. you are upset becaues he can't seem to "love" you unconditionally.  If he told you in a mean way that you are fat and he finds you unattractive, then that is not unconditional love.

However, one can still love another person without finding that person "attractive".  But, if you are looking for him to be attracted to you, then you do have to be what he finds attractive physically.  If you are thinking that he should find you attractive just because of your personality, then I don't think that's realistic. Men are very visual creatures, more so than women are.

But, you still don't deserve for him to say it in a mean way if that's what how he said it.[/quote]

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