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You're right. I do disagree with you wholeheartedly. Usually those who are overweight and are told to "feel bad" about themselves get depressed therefore eating more and gaining more weight. Often family members feel the need to intervene and some pick on them in hopes of helping them lose the weight, when in fact, they are exacerbating the problem.

I can see your point though, about having a drive to get more fit. But confidence and self esteem are key. Hope you are lucky enough to have someone around you that supports your weight loss AND tells you that [b]you are beautiful no matter what and truly mean it. 
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- former overweight woman that lost 70lbs [/quote]

The bolded part is where you and I part.  There is no such thing as "beautiful no matter what" when it comes to physical beauty. You can remain a wonderful person, a great personality etc. but beauty is visual and once you lose visual things that make you beautiful, you are no longer beautiful.  No one is beautiful no matter what.  Take any sex symbol beauty queen, make her gain 100 pounds, dirty her face, remove a couple of teeth, add pimples, and there is no beauty any more. When my husband tells me I'm beautiful no matter what, I know that's love talking, not truth, and my beauty, like anyone else's, is highly conditional. [/quote]

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