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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Absolutely. Wife was an 8 when we met.  10 years later she's a 14-16 (recent dress purchase brought her sizing issues to light).

I am still attracted to her and we have a good sex life (average 3 times a week).

That being said, I do wish she would lose the weight

1.  Her self confidence isn't great and that does play into a lot of aspects of our life, not iust the sex

2.  I miss some of the old positions we used to do that she's no longer comfortable with

3.  As much as I am still attracted to her, I did like her smaller size better.

But I've also put on weight so I'm in no place to judge. [/quote]

I think this would pretty much be my husband's answer, though I was a size 6 when we met.  I was a size 8 when we got engaged, and back to a 6 for the wedding.  I was between an 8 and a 10 before first kid but gained a lot with both pregnancies and can not get it off.  Kids are well past babyhood.  [/quote]

Women can't win on this. I was a size 0-2 before my twins were born and am now a size 6-8. My dh prefers my pre kid size and it has definitely affected my
self esteem and our sex life.[/quote]

Your husband is an asshole for telling you this.  I've been a bunch of different sizes and my husband has never ONCE commented on my size, and we have had a healthy sex life regardless.  I'm fit now because my lifestyle allows it and I enjoy it, not for my husband.
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He's not telling you this, but he's still thinking it.[/quote]

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