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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]His prior behavior is extreme. He has given you no reason to trust him, and every reason to distrust him - and yet he gets defensive and gaslights you when you are feeling insecure or uneasy.

Based on past events, basic logic can tell you without a shadow of a doubt that you cannot trust him. That doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating, but it seems you cannot have any expectations of him as a partner or husband.

I guess I'm wondering how you've remained in this marriage, truly.[/quote]

How? Or why?
Because I remember who he was before he was sick, and I am hoping, that going through treatment, the man he was will come back.[/quote]

At what cost to your children? Where do you draw the line of what is too much? Disappearing for weeks? No. Secrect finances? No. Probable infidelity? No 
You're a trooper op, but I worry for your kids.[/quote]

Some people don't care about their kids. Some people don't care that they are not modeling healthy relationships.  Some people don't care if their kid grows up thinking that being treated this way is ok.  Some people don't care about the emotional stress the scenarios put on their kid.  OP is one of those people.  She's selfish, really no other way of putting it.   Don't be surprised when your kid winds up in an abusive relationship OP, dear old mommy taught them that it was acceptable.  [/quote]

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