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[quote=Anonymous]OP, your later posts add some helpful info about the weird backstory between you and the BIL. But still don't address wy your DH seems to blame you for the rift between himself and his brother. You said that he said things like "this never happened before you" and "you made your bed, now you have to lie in it." Have you asked him if he blames you? What does he say? If your DH accepted that his brother was being crazy and rude, but still wanted to go to the bar mitzvah because he cares about his nephew, I could see you supporting him in going. But all this talk about how you both wish you weren't married and your DH loves you and your kids less (!!!) is confusing unless DH really does blame you. And if he does and you are not to blame, I don't know how you get past that in your marriage. :( [/quote]
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