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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand this thinking that women are just blow up dolls who should put out whenever their husbands want. Do you really want to have sex with someone who is tired, cranky, and just plain not in the mood?[/quote]

I don't get the sense that people are saying that at all.  I think a lot of people are struggling with the notion that this woman is upset that her husband is still attracted to her and, more generally, that a DW thinks it is a bad thing that the DH wants to actually have sex with the person he married and promised to forsake all others for.

Whether all you new age wives want to believe it or not, physical intimacy is important to many people - much more important than doing that last load of laundry.  It is about priorities and if having a lasting physical connection to your mate is not your thing, then you better make sure he is ok with it too.  Celibacy by unilateral decision NEVER ends well.  [/quote]

The thing is that if OP's DH came in the door after some time on the road and never mentioned sex or batted an eye at OP, she and most of people on here would say that he is cheating on her and that he got laid while he was away.  [/quote]

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