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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hallelujah, OP! :)

I'm being really harsh on you, but it's only because I want you to see that NOT letting this go is so bad for you.  Whether you see it or not, it's going to affect every area of your life.

It's not healthy for you to hang onto such anger, such hatred, such animosity.  It changes you as a person, it really does.

You'll never be as happy as you can be, you'll never be able to be as wonderful of a wife & mother as you can be, you'll never be as fulfilled with life as you can be.

You have this GIANT black cloud hanging over you at all times & even if you feel your children don't know, they know SOMETHING isn't right.

Don't you think you owe it to them to be the very best mother that you can?  As long as you hang onto this anger, you'll never be able to give that to them... ever.

I don't know you OP, but I really, really want the best for you.
You sound like a really good egg & you don't deserve to have this hanging over you constantly.

Youre like one of those cartoons where everywhere the main character goes, the rain cloud follows him & rains only on him.  You're wearing an overcoat of anger & negativity that's so heavy & so draining, it literally sucks the life out of you.

You deserve so much better than that, OP... so much.

Have you heard the old expression "the only person who's hurt by a grudge, is the person holding the grudge"?
That's because the person the grudge is being held against, either doesn't know you have this grudge or just doesn't care.

So you're the only person being affected by this anger & resentment & I understand you want them to feel it, but you have to be honest with yourself & come to the realization that they just don't care.  So the only person this grudge is hurting is you. :(

You may be absolutely valid in your feelings & totally right in every way possible, however how is being right making you happy?

Has anything I've said at all gotten through to you?[/quote]

Yes. Thank you.

- OP[/quote]

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