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[quote=Anonymous][quote]1. I know with 100% certainty that none of her friends, NONE, see my FB wall. 
2. She allows 2 other adults I know to post pictures with her in them. One is a teacher at her school who posts small groups and individual shots of her in her activity. She has no "approval rights" over those.

So I am about to have a conversation with her about this very thing; that I love her more than anything, am a good and present dad, and am truly doing my best. If this isn't good enough then your choice is to unconditionally accept me as I am (as I do HER), or plant the seeds of a distant and possibly estranged relationship.[/quote]

I don't think you know how FB works.  You can block access to your profile, but every time you mention another person it shows up on their wall.  Go to any random friend's profile, look at "Photos of _______" and you'll see photos that other people people posted.  You have to change "who sees this photo" when you first post it, but Facebook doesn't always prompt you on those settings.

What you do know is that it upset her and you did it anyway, her feelings be damned.  Is there any room in your great parenting to acknowledge that you made a mistake and try to rectify it?  There's a much greater chance that the next thing that will happen is that she will do the same thing.

There's nothing wrong with telling her just how angry you are at what she did.  But if you stop at her feelings be damned, that's where she'll stop too.[/quote]

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