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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It seems that excellent GPA and SAT is no longer enough. EC activities have to be supplemented with trips to teach underprivileged children in 3rd world countries.  And you have to be able to afford the said trips to foreign countries.  You have to know people to get internships and recommendations.   All this in HS.

I just feel that I have failed my kids because this is just so overwhelming. [/quote]

I'm the person whose kid needs between 3-5 classes before they could technically take the MCATS, whose kid was rejected from alma maters, and who is Yale Medical School legacy and whose kid can't get into a college with good stats:

This is my DC's mountain. DC, who is affluent, tutored friends who are more affluent, who got into fantastic schools. DC went throughout school with great kids, albeit nowhere near the same academic level, who are going to top notch schools.

You didn't fail your kid: the admissions process screwed our kids. It can't continue. In my old life I used to get federal funding for one of the schools - and others - my DC was rejected from. I was in love with one university because of the personal pride I took in the future renewal of the area and the coalition I was part of. Did I tell the admissions people this? No.

So, my advice is to use every connection you have to make the decision easy for the admissions team. My DC heard her entire life how I worked from the age of 7 and she wanted to it by herself. My family was 30 years from shirt sleeves (me) to shirt sleeves (daughter). Not the "American Dream."[/quote]

So where is she actually going to go to school?  Are you complaining just because she didn't get into Yale?  Nobody has a right to go to Yale.  Something must have been off with her application or her choices of schools to apply to, if her peers all go into better schools and she literally got in nowhere.  [/quote]

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