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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Hi 28 YO AA woman!

I believe AA women put too much emphasis on the "I have an education, make X amount of dollars" etc. That really does not matter to a decent fellow. He's not interested in that, as HE wants to be the provider. He wants someone he can have fun with, laugh with. Someone who'll create a happy home that he will look forward to coming to after a hard day of work each day. Someone who will be a bed of wisdom, kind words, gentleness and support when life deals its inevitable blows. When he's hurting, your degrees and number of dollars in the bank will not matter.

SO, I think you should focus more on the personality--being friendly, kind, gentle, and warm.

I'm an attractive, extremely educated AA woman as well and I have never had a hard time attracting wonderful men of substance and impressive credentials. I found this was much easier to do in metro areas.[/quote]

Another AA woman here and I agree with this take. Women care about credentials, but that's not what most men are focused on when choosing a mate. Not that you shouldn't educate yourself and pursue a career but develop as a person as well -- pursue hobbies, be warm and approachable and interesting.[/quote]

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