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[quote=Anonymous]NP here, while my STBXH didn't have a child with his longtime AP, I recognize a lot of my own reactions in trying to "keep my marriage together". I stayed for five more years before I realized that he is a narcissist and won't change. You need INDIVIDUAL therapy in addition to whatever counseling you're doing together. I wish I'd found my therapist a lot sooner. BTW, my STBXH's father had a second family - he never shared the details about how many kids, etc. but clearly it didn't turn out very well for him. I would do some reading narcissists or manipulative personalities. Also read about cognitive dissonance - I had it big time. Here are some links: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jVBixwXDjLM http://www.thriveafterabuse.com/the-red-flags-of-a-narcissist-series-in-order/ https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLcjFWuvIFFzJr5eXvb4rG_F-68lw4TK4T https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MP9M3YdiRvw [/quote]
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