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Reply to "Freaking out a bit. Wedding is in two weeks and I can't shake obvious red flags."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As for having joint accounts-my parents were in my accounts and I was on a few of theirs in case something happened to them or me and we needed to access the account. However, they never used my accounts and I never used theirs. [/quote] Op here. His mom wrote checks from his bank account. Recently. He paid $696 for their electricity bill. It's too weird for me. [/quote] Besides the enmeshment and the cold shoulder/refusal to acknowledge OP's concerns, the secrecy about financial matters is also a HUGE red flag. You're on the brink of marriage, and he has a bank account you didn't know about and spends large sums of money to pay his parents' bills? No way. Bad news. [/quote]
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