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[quote=Anonymous][quote=MWMnoexplanations]Long term monogamy: Realistic or a trap for wife and husband?  There are couples whose love and passion remains until one of them dies.  I envy them.  Are they emotionally well matched? Are their levels of physical desire comparable?  If a man or a woman, or both, come into a marriage with unresolved emotional issues/trauma or even undiagnosed mood disorders, that's not going to be a stable, loving marriage.  On that, I speak from experience.

[b]Women who've been cheated on might view my comments as too intellectual; too distant.[/b]  I can understand.  But are we given this 'template' of what a perfect marriage looks like by our parents, religion and/or society and when it doesn't meet up to those expectations, our world is shattered.  Most of us have emotional baggage or problems, some of which we don't even realize until a specific situation brings it out, such as a marriage.  Marriage, even if all the pieces fit, isn't always easy.  How many men and women are in deep emotional pain or have been wounded or disrespected by their spouse and that wound never heals, but festers?[/quote]

Why do you limit this to women?[/quote]

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