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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Gosh folks - did none of you want to train for an athletic event after you have kids?

OP - my husband's a cyclist too and it sounds like yours is training for a century.  That is a lot of work but I think its manageable.

This is what we do - I usually check in with husband on Thursday and say, "What's on your plate this weekend?"  He'll tell me, and then I'll tell him what I want to do, which typically includes a family activity and some stuff that  needs to be done around the house.  Then we work  the 'schedule' from there.  Everything is treated as equally important.  It works very well for us and allows us to have family time and "me" time.

Good luck.[/quote]

It's not just the biking in the mornings and on the weekend, it's the 2 nights a week out after work, going to watch tv when he is home when he isn't mandated by the schedule to interact with his family, AND the biking. Not a lot of balance or engagement there from the facts we have been given.

Neither of us trained for anything with a young baby in the house. [/quote]

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