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Reply to "DH and I constantly fighting over child care - how do you do it?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you husband sounds pretty emotionally checked out. I can see why the schedule is a way to try to keep him involved to some degree. I can also see him using it as a reason to distance himself further. Are his parents genuinely close with each other? Were you guys kind of like ships in the night before the baby? I'd go to counseling, together, or alone if he won't go. In terms of how he is spending his time, it's not too far a slide to completely separate lives. Do the 2 of you spend any alone time together? Do you have friends over in the evening every weekend? It just seems like the 3 of you are not as close as you might be. His activities might be a way of building distance in. Your problems here are about so much more than childcare, OP. Get some help, alone if you need to. Maybe you can find someone with lunchtime hours.[/quote]
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