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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you ever think of this guy when you masturbate? When you are having sex with DH? You are in an emotional affair. End it now before it gets worse and you do serious damage[/quote]

I think of him when I am alone in my hotel room at the conference. Not when I am with DH. I really don't think it is an emotional affair if we only interact one week a year. [/quote]

Then why did you start this thread at all?

If it doesn't feel like an emotional affair to you, what do you care what a bunch of anonymous strangers think? Since you posted it, it's pretty obvious that you're more uncertain than you're letting on. It also seems like the responses are going to give you the green light to have sex under the guise of 'Well, if I'm already having an affair...' You must have known that a lot of people would say you're having an EA.

FWIW - I seriously doubt you'd be ok with you husband doing this. It feels like that right now because you have this other man on your mind. Most people leaning toward, or having, an affair say this same thing.

What you don't know that a lot of us here do - getting divorced in middle age is awful. Kids, financial inter-dependence, a long history of shared memories, losing what once was a best friend....If you have sex with this guy, your life will never be the same. You know, BTDT. [/quote]

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