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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP I think you need to recognize your own responsibility in contributing to this unhealthy cycle between you and your in-laws.

It doesn't mean your in-laws are perfect.

But it means you are definitely not a saint. You clearly do like drama and are engaged in a "tit for tat" cycle. You know the term "it takes two to tango?" You are a contributing partner.

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+1. ALL. OF. THIS.

OP, you refuse to accept any responsibility for your own actions. You have repeatedly denied any wrong doing, when you are doing A LOT wrong. Nobody here can help you because of how adamant you are in refusing to accept blame for what you're contributing to the situation at hand. [/quote]

I put that I shouldn't have deleted SIL. I apologized to SIL. I don't know what else I'm supposed to do here? I guess I'm truly missing something.[/quote]

Maybe not act dramatic in the first place?

Engaging in an emotional cycle is a decision YOU made. And YOU participated in it deleting your SIL then trying to engage with her after and "apologize." Doing something dramatic and emotional and then apologizing doesn't make the situation better - it's clearly a cycle that you have likely engaged in for a long time.

You are unquestionably very immature, and do not have a hold on your emotions. Learn to stay in the moment, not overreact - maybe not react at all. [/quote]

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