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[quote=Anonymous]I'm 8 -10 bs heavier than when we got married, and definitely more wrinkled and less muscular, posture not great from nursing and carrying kids..... But dh has lost a lot of hair, what's left is gray and has aged more than I. We still love each other and are attracted. I am more concerned with my weight, face etc than he is (he doesn't mind my fleshier backside). But neither of us has totally let go, because we agreed early on that it was a sign of respect to our marriage to stay healthy and not just give up completely, balanced with acceptance that bodies change over time and our love is not founded on physical attraction (but it's important nonetheless)..[/quote]
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