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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Does she not like oral and he kept telling her she would like and pressuring her to do it? Then she wakes up to him performing oral sex on her? This is the only way I would see him getting arrested for this.[/quote]

What if, the next morning, she had rolled over and started doing that to wake him up and he realized that he really didn't want her to do that. Maybe he suddenly remembered that he already had a girlfriend or maybe he had morning after regrets and was no longer attracted to her.  He pushes her away and she stops her advances.  But it still happened, she still touched him...

[b]Is that something that he should report to police?  Should the young lady be arrested?  Should she be threatened with prosecution?  [/b]Should her frantic parents be called and given these kinds of graphic details about their daughter's sex life?  Should she be kicked out of school?  Should she be made to feel like a 'rapist"?
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IMO yes to the bold in your scenario. Unless in an established relationship where there's precedent that it's desired, I don't think agreeing to a sexual encounter one night [assuming what happened before they went to sleep was consensual and mutually enjoyable] is consent to future sexual encounters. The couple you describe went to sleep after finishing having sex, so to me oral sex after one or both of them wakes up is a second, separate encounter. And yes, it seems like common sense that you'd need consent each time you want to have sex, unless an understanding had been established between the couple beforehand.

- A PP, but not one quoted above. Woman, with only daughters, if it matters.

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You don't get how awful what you're saying is?  Ruining someone's life by pursuing charges for a sex crime for the scenario you've described?  Really?  Really?[/quote]

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