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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My MIL gave us Disney tickets which I didn't like because if I go on a vacation, I'd like to have a say about when and where.  I don't even like Disney. It felt more like a coerced visit than a gift.[/quote]
You are incredibly selfish and grateful.  You can coordinate vacations with MIL, you know?  And it is an extra free vacation. You can even talk to her about her taking the kids on her own.  MILs are people too, who have best of intentions, and yet somehow nothing they do is right.  If you just bothered to cultivate cordial relationship, you would realize that most people don't do things out of spite. MILs are moms, just like you are, and you should try to think that one day you might be in the same position, where you would like to see your kids and grand kids, who might hate your guts for no reason other than being selfish brats like you.[/quote]

extra free vacation?  where are those vacation days coming from?  did MIL negotiate with employer for extra days off? [/quote]

If this is not a troll, MIL obviously negotiated everything with her son. Son is incapable of communicating properly with his wife or mother. It seems to me that adult son has some difficulties in either being a responsible adult and if true, his rant at his mom is totally self absorbed and selfish behavior.[/quote]

That's the point.  Why is MIL "negotiating everything" about the family trip with her son?  It's DS and DIL's family, NOT MIL's. [/quote]

If different was the opposite, we would be hearing from DIL.. "why can't my MIL talk to her son, but put me in the middle of everything?  Just because I am a woman?" rant. There is just no win with some DILs.[/quote]

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