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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to get your act together. You were likely born a lazy person. You need to stop hiding behind ppd and "cabin in the woods." You are taking advantage of him. He's kind enough to step up and do the adulting, and then you throw that in his face by saying that makes you resentful.

Here's what you should do:

1. Wake up 30 mins early to get ready and head downstairs to help your husband and kids get ready in the morning. At the very least, be present.

2. Take responsibility for dinner a few times a week.

3. Or...baby steps: take full responsibility for the laundry. Laundry is literally the easiest job in the house. Heck, my kids know how to do it.

4. Stop being lazy. And stop criticizing the mess.

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You're a terrible person. Do you know anything about mental illness, specifically depression? Do you not believe in science? [/quote]

I have close friends and family who truly suffered from depression, and I have close friends and family who were simply lazy people.

Newsflash: even depressed people can run a load of laundry. Lazy people just bitch about the mess and whine about everything.

Two choices: wallow, or try harder. I suggest you try harder.[/quote]
Newsflash: you don't have any close friends.[/quote]

Ooooooohhhh...nice try, pp.

Let me guess: you're a wallower, correct? Nobody likes a whiny wallower.

Stop trying to convince the op that throwing in the towel is okay. It's not. Everyone should be giving the op a pep talk. She CAN get better, but she must try.

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What thread are you reading? No one has encouraged her to throw in the towel, most have been encouraging her to try without being nasty about it.[/quote]

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