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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Guerita32]Kids are so messy and it is hard to keep the house clean with kids in it! It is hard to keep my house clean on a Saturday and we have housekeeper that comes once a week!!

If he has been treating you like crap for this long... you should perhaps seek counseling.[/quote]

This. Kids. You can clean one room, and their crap is all over the other room. Whoosh them out of that room so you can clean it and the next room will have their crap all over it. It is important that you guys discuss what is reasonable in terms of cleaning and that you also make clear that staying home IS a job and a real fucking hard one some days[/quote]

+1000 to all of this.

I really can't believe this.  My mom was a SAHM and we had a live in nanny AND a once-a-week cleaning lady and the house was still a s***-show a lot of the time because kids are kids.

he seems to have some very crazy expectations. [/quote]

Maybe you were just exceptionally unruly. House of 3 kids (no nanny) and house was pretty clean and organized growing up.  One kid would be a walk in the park. Doesn't take long to pick up toys after the kid is done.  And fwiw, DH might not even be complaining about toys but about a legitimately disgusting mess if OP is too busy watching her one kid to wash dishes etc.[/quote]

For you, not everyone is the same.  And lucky for my mom my father did not get pi**y and passive aggressive if there was clutter left around.  Get a grip. [/quote]

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