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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The baby and dog were with the last standing parent. She wouldn't leave her baby with an ailing dad. You might leave the dog to guard the sick person, but you wouldn't leave the baby. You also can't hike carrying a baby on your hip. You can easily trip and drop it. A man might carry a baby on his shoulders but that's not very wise because you could lose your grip with sweaty hands. You have to put it in the carrier. [/quote] Maybe the baby and dad were still alive when she tried to get to the car, and she thought it better to go unburdened. I don't know what I would do in that scenario, but I trust my husband with my children. [/quote] It's not about trusting the husband! It's about recognizing that a tiny human life is not sustainable in that heat and trying to save your child if your spouse is stroking out.[/quote] No, you don't understand. These posters will gain super mom powers when they pick up the baby. Powers that will enable them to sprint 1.5 miles to the car while carrying a 20lb baby. After spending at least 2 hours in the sun and already walked 6.5 miles. [/quote] As one of the posters who doesn't think mom would have left without the baby I want to clarify that I'm not judging her. I feel like people think we are saying she was a terrible mother if she went without them. I think its unlikely she left without the child THEREFORE I do not believe mom was fleeing. I am not trying to be critical of her. I am just using my own experience as a mother to think about what I may or may not do in this type of situation and what is believable to me. She was an experienced hiker, if it turns out it was heat stroke and she was trying to make a run for it I will not think less of her. I am only saying that that aspect of motherhood has led me to different thoughts about what happened because I think certain behaviors are more likely/reasonable than others. [/quote]
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