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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So much navel-gazing and armchair therapy around a very simple answer to the OP's question: they do it because it feels good.  Same reason as people take drugs or make other doubtful choices.  It feels good in the moment.  That's all.[/quote]

Obviously but there is much more to it than that. Exercise, eating donuts, wearing makeup, smoking when you’re addicted, looking at pretty architecture, etc. all make you feel good, but [b]the motivations for choosing the action that makes you feel good differ[/b]. I would say that making the choice to remain faithful to your spouse even when it’s hard feels really good too. [/quote]

The implication here is perfectly articulated. Agree, 100%. [/quote]

Cheating is the only one in that list that can cause bodily harm to another unsuspecting spouse's health through disease and infection.

Go look at pretty architecture, smoke (spouse is aware and can isolate you from kids and him/herself to avoid second hand, wear make-up, eat donuts...

BUT stick you d(ck in another human, swallow someone else's giz---and bring your partner herpes, HIV, HPV, etc.

NOT EQUIVALENT AT ALL.[/quote]

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