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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My spouse and I have sex once a month, in a good month. I have tried for over a decade to get us to a good spot sexually, and nothing has improved it. I am not actively cheating but if the right opportunity came along, I would do it. To those who aren't in a sex starved marriage, you don't understand and that's ok. I wouldn't wish this on you.[/quote] But since your spouse does not want sex, you are not "cheating" to seek that unimportant thing elsewhere.[/quote] Yeah, and to be honest, she has said that if I cheat, she doesn't want to know. I wonder how common this is, long marriages where one spouse loses interest and agrees to not ask questions.[/quote] The sexless spouse has no say in how/where the normal spouse meets their sexual need. Who cares what they “agree” to given there was no agreement to become sexless.[/quote]
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