Reply to New STA parent seeking advice, suggestions, or just plain "I wish I had known X" info

Forum Index » Private & Independent Schools

Reply to "New STA parent seeking advice, suggestions, or just plain "I wish I had known X" info"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why do posters think the other guest had any idea that one boy had not been invited?  If I had been at the party I'd assume(if I had any reason to think about it at all) that the boy was out with other friends or was sick or not able to make it.  Or that the kids weren't friends.  Not appropriTe for the kid who was going to trick-or-treat with him to cancel (that's bad) but I'm not sure [b]why any other parent would know a boy had been excluded[/b].  [/quote]

Not before, [i]afterwards[/i]!  Go back to the original post about it.  After the party everyone knew.  And none of the parents stood up to the party parents about it.  And that is why families like ours are quite concerned.  It definitely is forcing us to reconsider our options for next year.  Very sad showing all around. [/quote]

Pp you are responding to here.  Honestly, I wouldn't have done anything afterwards either.   I can't imagine ever excluding a child in this way, but I also assume the best of other people and don't reach negative conclusions unless I have very good reason.  Lots of times, certain kids don't get along with others, or there is some agreement between parents that they are taking a break from each other  for a good reason.  If the host parents were people I was friends with, I would probably ask about it privately. And would strongly encourage them to be more inclusive unless there was a very good reason not to be. But I certainly wouldn't make a public situation of it. I respect the privacy of both families involved.  [/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics