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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]as a parent of a current 9th grader hoping to avoid disappointment, is there anything OP's child should have done differently? Be more "spikey"?  Pick a less competitive major?  Or is it just a lottery?  Get more excited about "lower ranked" schools? TIA![/quote]

Be very, very excited about state schools most kids can get into. Talk up the amazing things their graduates are doing. Look around and point out the kind and well-functioning adults in your neighborhood and family who have gone to all sorts of colleges.  Emphasize no college is a magic pill for success. Teach your child that their success lies in their ability to work hard and push through difficulties and that success can be won at any college (or no college at all!) in America. Do not even tour hard to get into colleges or talk about them until you have a foundation of safety and target schools that are a good fit academically and financially and where your child will be excited to go to and where they have a vision of what they will do and try while they are there. This process of discernment will also help your child figure out which reach schools are a good fit and what they are looking for at them, which will also make them a stronger candidate if they do apply to a highly rejective college. [/quote]

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