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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]TL:DR all of the above, but in my case, it is b/c the "feminist" movement devalued the role of SAHM and then dual-income families drove prices up. So I like to contribute where I can and feel like I'm using my advanced degrees. However, my top priority remains emotional & physical availability for my kids. I stayed at home exclusively for many years. Now that my kids are older & mainly need me after school, and I found a flexible position with hours during the school day and a fair rate of pay (these things generally don't overlap!), I jumped at the chance to get back into the workplace. Things feel a little crazy even part-time so my hat is off to the FT work-outside-the-home moms. Because we don't need my income, I can be very picky about the job(s) I take. Every job I've had since kids has been part-time, higher rate of pay (vs benefits), and offered flexibility with hours & sick time if the kids need me. I do not know how FT dual income families are making things work, but if you are in a rat race situation, drop all the expensive activities and extras and see if you can simplify & live on one income. Do you even need a house as large as you have?! So much of what we think is necessary in NOVA just isn't. This is a bubble. A simpler life/childhood for your kids with more downtime & connection (especially if extended family isn't nearby) is critical for children. Look at the mental illness, suicidal ideation, and behavior issues. They need our connection.[/quote]
Thank you.[/quote]

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