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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's really sweet op! I like the gifts [/quote] It's sooo many gifts. I have (6) Shalwar Kameez, 3 gold earrings and they are real gold, a few saris, and a lot of bedding. Whenever family comes, they gift me something instead of DH. A new person comes every day, and usually, they stay one night and cosleep with MIL. I love the cosleeping culture here. My kids also love it and cosleep with my parents and my sister when they visit us. By the end of the trip, I think 100+ family members will have visited, probably more. I am starting to understand why SA weddings are so large. [/quote] Are you expected to give a gift to everyone back? As in, you are the "rich" visitors, right? Also, tipping the help when you leave. That blew my mind. It's the people who hire the help who have to keep them happy and give them more money when there's more work. Not the guests who inadvertently create more work. That's just crazy. Are you gonna tip all the $7/month people?[/quote]
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