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FWIW, this thread has made me feel like absolute crap.  I am planning on taking 6 months off, which is going to be as much time as my family can financially bear for me to be off work.  I thought I was doing a pretty good job researching childcare and maintaining a job that provides great benefits and will allow me to help pay the bills.  According to so many on this thread I clearly do not love my child and am a horrible failure as a mother.  Thanks for the support ladies.[/quote]

Don't worry, PP. You and your baby will be okay. You're unsure of yourself now but you'll see, it will all work out. My kids are a lot older now and I've done it a lot of different ways (SAHM with infants, part-time WAH, fulltime WOHM, daycare with infants). Nobody could pick out which one of my children had which infant childcare experience, and they're all kind and emotionally healthy. I've spent many hours with many different older children and teens and while I have never been able to guess what infant childcare arrangement their parents used, I have been able to guess at whose parents are kind, emotionally stable, and loving people as opposed to those unfortunate kids with parents who are unkind, or overly critical, or judgmental, or emotionally unstable, or have untreated mental illness. That's the sort of thing that leaves a mark, not childcare. Don't let DCUM crazies get to you. They and their poor kids need a lot more help than you or your family do. [/quote]

I concur.  I also think people should be careful about listening to anyone who bashes someone for working or staying at home.  Since this board is anonymous there is no way to really know if a person's life is as they say.  Those women bashing working mom could have a horrible marriage and miserable kids for all you know.  So please do not let the nasty posts get you down.   I worried myself sick with my first child because I had to work.  She is four years old now and has turned out very well so far in my opinion.   I now realize I worried myself over nothing.  At the end of the day if your kids are happy and healthy, the opinions of other people mean nothing.  [/quote]

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