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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Here's the thing. Let's assume at some point in a child's life something bad is going to happen when a parent isn't there. Going to happen; no avoiding it. Wouldn't it be nice to know that your child has the capacity and self-assuredness to effectively neutralize the situation or know how to access someone who can? This kind of knowledge and confidence has to be taught and practiced so when the time comes that the child has to act, they are prepared. No amount of "don't talk to strangers and hold mommy's hand while crossing the street" will ever help your child not get victimized or run over by a car. [/quote] No one disagrees that you have to teach them how to exist in the world. The question is at what age can they do that unsupervised. A line has to get drawn somewhere. You think it should be younger than 8. What age? [/quote] I was 4 when my parents started teaching me and practicing. Why? Because come Sept. 4 I had to walk to school by myself and cross many streets - all at the age of 4. I was not 5 until December of that year. The largest 4-lane road had a crossing guard. There weren't any children my age in my neighborhood, so I didn't meet up with other kids until I was out of my neighborhood. And they were all elementary kids as well. We practiced all summer and played games about what to do if certain situations arose. Many other families practiced as well. I felt so proud and prepared on my first day! And no this wasn't some small town. I grew up just outside of DC.[/quote] So you think kids should be able to roam unsupervised at 4. Ok. We definitely disagree. Just because you survived doesn't mean that's a good benchmark.[/quote] How many K students died walking to school in the 50-90's? I am curious. Paranoid much? [/quote]
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