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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That you are supposed to give a hostess gift when you go to someone's house. I grew up middle class, and the only people we ever entertained were lower middle class family. I learned this in college. Extremely embarrassing. [/quote] I'm fifty and just learned this right now. None of my middle class / lower middle class family and friends did this [/quote] Isn’t this just done when one is hosting a party?[/quote] No. When someone invites us over, we take a bottle of wine, a six pack of beer, some cookies, whatever. My DD has a friend who brings over a snack every time they have a playdate, I think it's great of her parents to teach her such good manners at an early age, we've started doing it too - either a snack or a craft. I grew up solidly middle class and our family friends were of a varied socioeconomic group, this was always the case. I grew up in the midwest, so perhaps that's why. In my opinion, people are more polite, generous, and mindful of others in the Midwest.[/quote] I grew up poor in the south and we knew never to visit someone empty handed. I have several friends from Ct and NYC who were raised the same. My inlaws from NJ are cheap moochers. They know better but are always looking to get others to provide for them.[/quote]
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