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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not your business. Everyone grieves differently.[/quote]

So flying off to romantic getaways while you leave your kids at home with family members is ok two months after your wife's funeral? Sorry, I don't think that is ok.[/quote]

You're an asshole. How dare you judge someone and how they process grief?! I cannot believe how judgemental and unsympathetic people are. By your reasoning when my daughter died, I should not have rushed and gotten pregnant two months later with the next one. Or is it a different grief process for different loved ones?

I rarely get angry at the opinions here but this is just hurtful and selfish thinking . For once, it's.not.about.YOU. And what you think.[/quote]

Nobody is judging how you process grief. We're judging how your choices affect the people around you, like minor children. If you expect the children, friends, and relatives to jump for joy when you start dating right away, that's the issue. Do what you need to do, but don't expect everyone else to be happy for you or end their own grieving just because you are ready to date. [/quote]

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