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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The issue is not the length of time but the quality of the relationship. If this man is using new romance to meet his own need only, and not because he wants to meet her needs too, that is exploitation. It is worse if he is sleeping with her, because sex outside of marriage is wrong and destructive. I know some widowers who remarried quickly and are still happy years later. I know others who jumped into a new marriage and ended up divorced. The question is does he truly love the new woman for herself, and not just what she can give him? If not, he will hurt her, his children and himself. There isn't much an outsider can do except gently and kindly suggest more time, and pray for him. If he's still grieving, a support group called griefshare could help. Find a group near you at griefshare.com.[/quote] Another asshole. Unreal.[/quote]
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