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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] And, I should say, as a SAH dad I get so annoyed by the notion that men are incompetent in all these ways. Some might be, some are lazy, some are intimidated by the task, some just have no interest. But in most child-rearing activities, I'd say I do as well or better than most women I know. Some men are actually capable... [/quote] Probably the best thing to happen to my marriage was, when the kids were young, my wife got the opportunity to take a trip out of the country for a week. I got to take care of the kids *my way* -- and gain confidence in doing so; meanwhile, my wife was able to gain a level of comfort that the kids would be fine when she let go and just let me parent them. She didn't have to micromanage me. I was more comfortable, she was more comfortable, and the kids got two active parents. [/quote] Agreed. We did this by having DH take 6 weeks off after I went back to work. He gained a lot of competence and loved his time alone. [/quote]
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