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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Another tracker here. [b]We've had sex 14 times this year[/b]. [/quote]

that makes me sad  :cry: [/quote]

I would LOVE to have had sex 14 times this year. Now *that* is sad....

Wife and I are barely holding on... She is nearing menopause, has lost all interest. I try not to masturbate or turn to porn, but the rare times we've tried lately have been awkward and unsuccessful, adding to the strain. I mentioned scheduling and she hates the idea of being pressures. Just as when I sent her a couple of flirty text on the way home from a business trip -- took it as a ton of pressure that sex had to happen that night.

I will hope and pray we get to 14 times in 2017... Or maybe even 4?[/quote]
Hope and pray? Um, my friend... YOU are the problem! 
No wonder she doesn't want sex with you: you are passive. That isn't sexy. She doesn't respect you.

Either a normal sexlife is important to you, or it is not.
And if it IS, then you don't go masturbate watching porn, you (playfully.. romantically... whatever she likes) initiate sex with your wife.
And if she isn't interested (not at any particular moment, but in general) then you explain this is a relationship dealbreaker for you.
She can either figure out her desire issues (and fast) (which may include changes that YOU need to make).
Or you will soon resume an active sexlife .... without her. 
That's what a non-passive man in your situation would do. Instant fix to your sexless problem. 
Possibly it requires you to go outside the marriage, but that is entirely HER choice.

But I can see it really isn't that important to you. 
So have fun with your sex 3x per year, for me that is an average WEEK of sex.

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