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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, in my experience, you can do everything possible to try to win them back while they're in an EA, and it won't stop it. Only removing them from the situation (which isn't necessarily doable if they work together) and totally breaking off contact will let it die out. It's like an intoxicating drug.[/quote]

This is true.  If they don't see each other, the EA tends to fade.  It's the contact that keeps these relationships going.

Plus these are unconsummated.  The itch stays unscratched.[/quote]

DH here...I agree with both comments above.  I am in love with a coworker who is hotter than DW (looks like a fitter, nympho version of Jennifer Love Hewitt).   We've acknowledged the mutual attraction and that we'd love to sleep with each other, but it ain't happening because of our marriages.  So the EA continues at the flirty, smolder level that exists exclusively within work hours.   I try to minimize any mention of EAP's name at home, even though she's often on my mind.   We never do lunch, and don't even have each other's cell numbers because we know that takes us down a path we've decided to avoid.
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In " love" with this nympho Love Hewitt?

Really? 
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+1. Wonder if that love would stick around if that fitness and nymphomania went away after marriage and a couple kids. [/quote]

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