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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Then I suppose the threat of publicity is my best strategy. [/quote]

Maybe, but if you're too angry/vengeful, it could boomerang, and you're now portrayed as the vengeful ex, and your STBX and his new lover the couple that just want to provide their child a stable, loving home.

Remember, he'll be able to hit back at you, too.[/quote]

There's nothing to hit me back WITH, I'm not the one who had the child outside of marriage and kept it quiet for years, diverting marital resources to support the child conceived outside of marriage. [/quote]

Nothing to hit back with? How about the assurance that you won't go public if he agrees to your demands.

No judge gives a f*ck about a child born outside the marriage. It doesn't change his relationship with his child. [/quote]

The judge in my divorce cared. So you never know. Court is a crapshoot. And you don't know what you're talking about. Please don't give any more advice to OP because you don't know what your'e talking about. [/quote]

The judges cared? As in, you were given sole custody? I find that difficult to relive. [/quote]

I just saw this. No, I was given primary physical custody, and my three kids live with me more than 2/3 of the time. I have primary legal custody, which has been really important.

It's not just adultery, but all the other things that came along with it - like terrible judgement. Like having an out of wedlock baby while married to someone else, and then not spending time with the original kids - or siphoning off marital assets for the baby. That sort of thing.

So yes, the judge cared. I know several women who have similar custody arrangements because a judge cared.

Everyone assumes 50-50 is a given, but I would say that half of the women I know have their kids around 2/3 of the time. Their exes get other weekend and one weeknight.

Court is a crapshoot. You never know and should never make any assumptions. It's terrifying, but sometimes things really do work out.

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