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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes OP.  Just the threat of naming her was enough to get my ex to sign the papers I presented him with.  Now, they were very fair papers.  50/50 on everything except, I wanted more control of custody and visitation.  I got it.  [/quote]

That's the sort of effect I'm looking for.  I want sole custody, transferring the house to my name only, child support and full waiver of his claims to any of my assets. I'm the breadwinner.   In exchange for this, I could offer liberal visitation and preserving his good name, which is important to him. [/quote]

Hi OP,
We thought this would work in my case, but it failed. I think we waited too long to act, and the shame sort of wore off. If you do it, do it fast.

Threaten to depose her too.

[b]And threaten discovery, especially if you're the breadwinner because he probably can't afford a $200k divorce[/b].

Are your assets premarital have them never been mingled with your marital ones? If so, don't worry about them.

It sounds like you can easily get what you want if he's a rational person. You're not asking for anything crazy. I would suggest coming up with a pretty stringent visitation schedule - and be willing to compromise a bit on it so he feels like he's getting more than he really is. He sounds like an awful person. I'm sorry.

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Bad idea. As the breadwinner, OP can be made to pay his legal costs so that he has adequate representation.[/quote]

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