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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The other day DIL shared meme on Facebook. Part of it mentioned hoe grandparents play favorites. I blew it off and made no assumptions. Well today I post a picture of my mother, myself, my daughter and granddaughter and the caption said 4 generations. DIL commented about how she wishes her daughter had been included. [b]I explained to her that was a picture that was for her with her own mom. [/b]Well she deleted her comment and didn't respond. Is this her passive aggressive way of letting me know she's mad or am I putting too much into it?[/quote]

oh MIL, you revealed SO much when you said that, your DIL was absolutely right about you playing favorites.  Not only do you NOT think of your DIL as like a daughter to you (which would be the gracious thing to do), but WORSE, you somehow don't see your granddaughter by her equally as you see your daughter's daughter (this is beyond ungracious and bordering on damaging.)  frankly your DIL's suspicions have been confirmed by your horrendous 'explanation" comment.  she probably deleted it so her daughter would hopefully never see it.  frankly if you can't see how hurtful that was i think they are better off without you in their lives 'explaining' to them how family lines should work.  you really need to think long and hard about how you would feel if you were treated like such an outsider in a family group.[/quote]

This x 100.  That one sentence.  Very revealing of how you feel toward her and your grand-daughter.[/quote]

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