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[quote=Anonymous]If the DH came home like clock work at 7:30 sure - keep up for that extra half hour but as stated - it is 7:30 - 8:30 which means that realistically the kids would be up/awake until 9:00 many night: a stay in bed kiss/cuddle from Dad is NOT what this DH is doing if he's waking them up. There's no way my kids would go back to sleep in less than a half hour. At that age - my DH was traveling way too much and/or getting in late some nights. My kids bedtime? 6:45 - and yes - definitely for ME but bonus for them. I definitely needed to have them on a schedule and if I was going to be doing it on my own more nights than not - I needed the surety of a set bed time and then I also needed my downtime or I'd have been at end of my rope if I had to get up and do it on my own the next day - and I did this when I was working full time 100% out of the house and when I was 100% stay at home/not working. The DH has to make his kids a priority and if its being with them at breakfast, then so be it.[/quote]
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