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[quote=Anonymous]Some of the posters who are in favor of big second weddings seem to assume that, because everyone was gracious, no one had these feelings at their wedding. Yeah, we know your MIL was thrilled to see her little boy have a big wedding. Yeah, we know you felt entitled to a big reception because this is your first wedding and you feel like you deserve it, even though your husband was married before in front of much of the same guest list. I've been a guest at a few second weddings, and have offered congratulations and gifts. Many attendees at each wedding still thought it was tacky. I wouldn't assume that you know what's going on in the minds of your guests. Deep down, many of these brides know that a lot of the guests might have unpleasant feelings, which is why they get so emotional and angry at the suggestion that they're being selfish and over the top, and only thinking of themselves.[/quote]
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