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[quote=Anonymous]I am a third wife--that's right, my husband was married TWICE before me.  And yet we still had a wedding when we got married.  It was probably fairly understated by some people's standards--no bridesmaids or groomsmen, finger foods reception at our house afterward, no associated showers, engagement parties, etc.  But it was still a church wedding with about 100 people, most of whom gave us very nice gifts (and, yes, we registered).

Here's the thing: none of them questioned us or were nasty about it.  They were gracious and generous.  They didn't begrudge my husband for having a second wedding (only one of his previous marriages had included a wedding).  Instead, all of his friends and family really love him, and they'd watched him through a lifetime of poor decisions and bad luck in love, and I like to think that they were optimistic that maybe he'd gotten it right this time.  (And, indeed, our marriage has already lasted 3x as long as his longest previously.)

So, that's another option for you: just be happy for the new couple, and offer them the love and support that marriage requires.  I tend to agree that most of the trappings of a wedding are pretty stupid, so you can skip or minimize that stuff and focus instead on supporting the new couple and their life ahead.
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